How can we make it less scary for you?

I’m winding down from a long weekend spent with some of my best girlfriends from school - my hive, my wolf pack, my ride or dies. Friday night we were talking about our first impressions of each other.

“I was so intimidated,” Barbara said to me.
“Of me?!” I asked.
“Yes, you were so put together!”
“Put together? I discovered halfway through our first day that my pants were on backwards,” I laughed.

Which is totally a true story.

It’s amazing how much of another person’s story we write in our own heads before we actually get to know them. They’re better than us, more put together, smarter, funnier, prettier… 

Or, rather, it's amazing the untrue story of ourselves we perpetuate. The story that says, “I am less than.”

Stepping into unfamiliar territory is, almost, always scary. I’m in Texas right now because the SheHive launches in two days and I am scared shitless. Scared that it’s going to fail, that I’m going to be a laughing stock, that it was a bad idea, that I’m going to bankrupt my family...

I knew it was important to immerse myself in a community of women that would help me remember that I am enough - now and always. It is all I want for every woman that eventually walks through the SheHive doors. Which got me thinking…

Walking through the SheHive doors for the first time is going to be a scary proposition for a lot of women - for me, for Andrea, for the instructors, for the women that just want to be a part of a community. We’re all worried that we might not fit in and that we’ll stand out (and not in a good way). 

I want to say to you, in no uncertain terms, if you want to be a part of the SheHive - you are welcome. Not just welcome, Andrea and I really, really want you to be a part of our community and we want to be a part of yours. You are not a fluke, you are not the one women that is not going to "fit in" and we will do just about damn near anything to help you find comfort in this community. Period.

We are all scared at times. We are all worried that we might not fit in. We are all worried that we are going to be the laughing stock when everyone else finds out what a fraud we are. I promise you that you are nowhere near alone in these feelings and if you just step a foot in the door, magic can happen.

So, please, tell me what it is we can do to help you step foot inside the SheHive for the first time. Do you want a personal tour? A coupon so you can bring a friend along the first time? A bottle of wine and a late night talk about how much we value you (our personal favorite option, by the way)?

I'm game…  because a whole bunch of women that mean the world to me just did the same for me and I am so very grateful.

There is magic and immense comfort to be discovered in the company of your future hive. How can we make it a little less scary to help you take the first step towards finding it?

- Ursula